Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Is listening important?

The answer to the question above is invariably yes. Listening is, in my opinion, the most important aspect of the communication cycle. I say that because my own personal experience has shown that to me. I have discovered that in situations where I am required to speak to someone that my biggest concern has always been, what should I say. Often times I find myself thinking of that same question while someone is speaking to me, instead of listening I preoccupy my mind with what I am going to say next. Experience has taught me that I have been going about it in the wrong way. I have learned that while I am in any situation where I am communicating verbally with anyone that by focusing on what the other person is saying, and why they are saying it, that I am capable of responding to their needs. I am able to process what it is that the person is saying and why they are saying it, and I am able to respond with questions or with action.

By putting more effort into the listening aspect of the communication cycle, we get a better understanding of the motives of the person speaking to us, which helps us understand better exactly what is going on. We are able to perform tasks and requests with more accuracy, respond to questions with intelligent well understood responses, and express ourselves more clearly to the understanding of the listener. Often times the listening is overlooked so there is misunderstanding for both parties and a lot of confusion.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Economy is Self Fulfilling Prophesy

Economics is not my most favorite subject. As it turns out I don't like it at all. Some of the aspects and the principles of macro-economics can be intriguing to me but overall I don't much care about the rest of it. To me one of the most annoying aspects of economics is that it governs itself. What I mean by that is that when economists predict that something in the economy is going to happen it happens. Not necessarily that they foresaw that it was going to happen but that it happens because it was predicted and prophesied that it would.

Let me give an example and see if i can make this any clearer. Let's say that a famous economist predicts that there is going to be a large recession, that stocks may plummet ant that consumer trust in the market is going to fall. He says these things because of some small predictors that show a specific trend that may or may not lead to any specific destination. Because of this genius prediction people start to be a little more careful with their money, they spend less, invest less, sell the stock that they do currently have. So what happens? This recession that was predicted would happen actually ends up happening. People change their behaviors because of the economist and the prophesy of the recession is fulfilled. The sad thing is that people collectively aren't clever enough to figure this out so they listen to and follow every word of these famous economists.